Friday, July 31, 2009
So I am sure many on you have had a friend lie to you before. And chances are you didn't know it at the time. But you found out......how did that make you feel? Pretty upset! What if you found out they lied more than once to you? How could you be friends with someone you did not trust. At that point they become an acquaintance or not even. Now to top it off, your friend lied to you about another mutual friend. Not to mention I obviously had to question the person in which the lie was about to even know it was a lie. Who do you trust the person that you know has lied before or the person who hasn't lied to you before. This is out of control! I mean, I have enough going on in my life that I do not need this kind of negative causing chaos! I want happy positive people in my life. Someone I can rely on, if needed. I sure can't rely on someone I cannot trust! It's like the trust exercise you do in camp, you fall back and hope they catch you......guess what I just hit the ground. That hurt and its sucks, I will think twice before I do that again. So do you confront the friend that lied to you? Or do you just let it go because they know they lied? Confused and wishing I had that motherly advice on friendships....she was good at that stuff!